Category: Thought is Creative

I have written about how your thoughts create your life circumstances. I’m going to put a situation invented by me, with a fictitious name, so you can learn to see how this works.

• Maria grew up in a dysfunctional home. Her parents did not give her the emotional recognition that she needed. However, it was given to her older brother. That made Maria very jealous and resentful, because she didn’t understand why it was not given to her. She concluded that it was because she was not important enough.

• Maria grew up and when she got married her husband didn’t give her enough attention. He preferred to be at work or with his friends. This made Maria very jealous and resentful. She felt that she was not important enough.

• Something similar happened to her at her work. Her boss didn’t appreciate her work and promotions were given to her coworker. Maria felt that her work was not valued enough. This caused her a lot of resentment and jealousy of her co-workers.

Can you see a pattern that repeats itself? This happens to all of us in some way. Your job is to look for situations that are repeated in your life and where they came from. What thoughts did you decide about yourself? To what conclusions about yourself did you come to? You have to take the time to study yourself in order to transform your erroneous conclusions. Thus you will create a life more attuned to what you want.

You have unconscious patterns that come from childhood. Usually they are passed from generation to generation because we “copy” what we live.

By teaching you discipline through disapproval, which was what they learned from their parents, your parents taught you to question your worth, leading you to conclude that there was something wrong with you.

Your need for approval is based on the premise that your worth is measured by what others, especially those in authority, believe about you. Not what you think.

You spend your life looking for people to tell you how to act. In this way you open yourself to others manipulating you.

As an adult, you may tend to create situations that make your partner or friends disapprove of you. You will tend to make your partner or friends pay for what   your parents did to you. If your partner does not allow it, you could use your children.

Once you manage to realize that as an adult you are reacting as you did as a child, by working with yourself you will be able to react as an adult, to any situation that comes your way.

Here is an exercise so you can to start to see what things you have to work with. Write at least 10 of each.

I. List how you were disapproved of as a child.

II. List situations in your current life where you feel disapproved of.

III. List the ways you “punish” people you interpret as disapproving of you.

Once you start to become aware of your patterns, you can start to think differently, but not until you realize that your behavior comes from unconscious thoughts you have about yourself.

Contrary to the laws of the world, which can change as the legislature changes, the 7 Universal or Cosmic Laws operate in your life all the time, whether you believe in them or not. They exist, whether you are aware of them or not, whether you have “discovered” them or not.

These laws rule the Cosmos and everything in it. This includes you and everything that surrounds you. The laws intertwine among each other, and they all work together.

Once you become familiar with these laws, you will understand why your life is the way it is. Since the world is a compendium of many people’s lives, it will also give you an understanding of why the world is the way it is.

When you don’t understand the Universal Laws, you live your life in an unconscious way, and you usually feel like a victim of circumstances. Understanding these Laws:

• It will allow you to take control of your life.
• It will help you change those areas of yourself that don’t make you happy, and expand those that do.
• You will realize that the only way you can change the world is by changing yourself, becoming a better person, and in this way sending that energy to the cosmos.

I will be explaining some of the laws in the following blogs.

When you experience anything unpleasant in your life how do you react? Do you blame someone? Do you feel guilty? Have you ever considered why your life is how it is? Did you know that only you can do something to change it?

Quantum physics has shown that if you look through a very powerful microscope, physical matter looks like small universes of atoms and electrons vibrating. If you continue to magnify it, you will eventually see that it is only pure energy.

There are several principles involved:

• The principle of magnetism – Each thing has its own particular magnetic quality. Being electromagnetic energy, this causes thoughts to attract energy that has a similar magnetic quality.

• The principle of radiation, everything that exists emits or radiates energy outwards, according to its vibratory level.

• The principle of attraction states that energy will attract to itself what it throws out. Therefore, what you think will come back to you. If you have negative thoughts you will attract negative energy. The more you think about something, the more you will attract it to you. What you resist persists.

Most thoughts are unconscious. You acquired them from the moment of conception, from your parents, teachers, siblings, religious leaders and society in general. Many times, the thought is so unconscious that you don’t see the relationship between it and your reaction. But you choose your reaction, it doesn’t choose you.

How you react to something depends on your perception. If you want to change your life you have to change your thoughts. You have to choose to see differently. Once you do, you will begin to awaken to the love you are.